Dating tips for christian guys

And, they did it because they didn’t like the secular options and hoped their faith tradition could provide them with unique insights.But, the Christian dating advice for men was, looking back, pretty terrible. Their wisdom usually centered on tips such as: treat women like queens, suppress all natural urges, and be a nice guy.

They frequently ventured into the realm of dating and relationships since it was on the minds of a lot of hormone driven college age students.Women aren’t going to think, “wow, he’s vigorously arguing the finer points of theology, I have to date this guy.” If you appear too arrogant and combative, you’ll turn women off.Also, arguing about theology isn’t most people’s idea of a fun date or interesting conversation (even if Christian).The vast majority of Christians I’ve talked to over the years fit this profile (and I’ve talked to thousands). So, if you are really into your faith and that’s all you can talk about, you’re going to have very little luck with most women. If your church is small, consider finding another one.When you go on dates, even if you know the person is a Christian, don’t assume that’s going to be your only conversation topic. Some people are more private about their faith or just have other interests. Go to Bible studies, join groups, go to larger events like multi-church or diocesan concerts and gatherings, etc.

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